eHarmony first day…ughh
Pretty disappointing. I’m not looking for Jessica Alba….but I do want my potential dates to be athletic/fit. So far, not so much on Day 1.
I immediately closed 4 matches, I have a feeling I’ll have many coming in this first month, so I don’t want to get bogged down. It sounds harsh, but one thing I learned from my last time on eharmony is that you have to be organized. That means you need to close out matches, forget about them, and move on.
I left one match open, if she decides to communicate, I might be open to meeting…
On Looks…
For me, attraction is something I can’t define easily. I’m talking physical attraction here. Some women, who are obviously very beautiful, I find myself not attracted too at all. Others, who people might describe as kind of homey, I find drop dead gorgeous. In my past relationships, the girls I’ve dated were ones I thought were beautiful. I imagine an outsider looking just at them from their looks would describe them as “cute”, but not “hot”. An overly attractive girl is just not very attractive to me….It sounds crazy, but I want someone who’s the most beautiful person in the world….but only too me : )
Current eHarmony Match Stats
6 matches
4 I closed
1 Got Closed
1 Open
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