Harmony
Dear Harmony,
I’m about to write you an e-mail, and you’ve asked specifically about my job. I of course am going to answer. With a little google sleuthing though it will be easy for you to connect my business to my full name, and my full name to this blog. So, there is a good chance you will read this.
A few items I’d like to note if you find this:
- I’m not a creepy guy. I promise. I’ll give you #’s of totally normal non-blogging friends of my to verify
- I like to write. Writing my thoughts and feelings helps me process them, thus this blog
- Why a public blog? Well, honestly I never thought anyone would actually read the darn thing, but now that it seems a few people do, I don’t want to stop. This site is ranking decently for google, and SEO (search engine optimization) is a hobby of mine.
- I’m not crazy. Again, I have phone #’s you can call to verify this. I’m just not normal, that’s all : )
So, if you find this, and you think, “this guy is nuts! He wants to marry someone is 12 months!” Well, yes, I have made myself committed to this…but its nothing set in stone. I’d like to meet someone in 12 months, but I doubt that I will be married in 12 months, that would be a huge and likely not necessary rush.
So, Harmony from central washington, or any other match, I hope you are OK with my little online musings here. Just wanted to give you a little heads up.
Regards,
Mark
Found this site the other day and am enjoying reading about your experiences! Sounds like ‘Harmony’ may be worth continuing to pursue…if she’s the right girl she won’t think you’re a “creepy guy”, if anything, she might find your efforts admirable. And don’t worry about the age difference…she’s obviously not too concerned if you’re still communicating. Good luck!
Keep us updated!
I’m enjoying reading this as well, but I’m confused. Your very first post says that you’ll find a love interest in 24 months, but everywhere else says 12 months. Which is it? Don’t you think that 24 months is a little more realistic? Peace
I, too, have a public blog (not, mono no aware) - one that details many aspects of my life. You might say it is an unblinking look at what makes me tick and who I am as a person. At least one of the matches I’ve shared my full name with (I.E., all the data you need to find my public site) visited and read it. And read it, and read it. There are entries there going back more than a few years - I think she read them all.
It did provide some new conversation threads, and may have given her brief pause, but ultimately it has been a good thing. My only advice would to be careful about outing non-bloggers on your blog. Seeing yourself (even anonymously) on some one’s web site can be off putting.
enoch
eHarmony = good … my $0.02.